Chastikey configuration

These are notes about how I configure Chastikey, the phone app that allows time control of a chastity lockup for self locking.

My objectives are:

* I want some control over the time - for instance, I wanted a lockup of about 7 to 10 days, and okay being a little outside that but not too far, so 2 days or 20 days would have been annoying

* I wanted to need to interact with it to have some engagement - if you just 'set and forget' until the time is up, there are other ways to do fixed time lockups like KitchenSafe

There are many ways you can set up Chastikey for all sorts of objectives. This is detail about the settings I use to meet those objectives, but if you have different objectives then you should use different settings.

These are the settings I use (in the order they're defined on the app):

* Lock for Myself

* Not a test lock

* No bot (see later)

* Variable lock

* Chance every 3 hours - not too often that it's distracting, not too infrequent that I forget all about it

* No cumulative chances - this means I can check every 3 hours but if I miss several chances, I don't get to catch up on them, the chance is lost. If I forget to check all day, that's effectively a whole day delay to unlocking, so requires regular involvement to get the lock closer to unlocking

* Number of digits - I use a digital safe which takes 8 digits

* Red card count (see later)

* Yellows - yes, adds a bit of variety

* Sticky cards - no, feels like they're very dangerous. Say your pack has 10 stickies, they never go away so you might end up with 1 green but still 10 stickies so could add several days to the lockup

* Freeze cards - yes

* Double up cards - no, they have too big an effect

* Reset cards - no, they have too big an effect

* Green cards - doesn't make a huge difference how many there are since it's quite likely that you'll be down to the last few cards before it unlocks, but 10-20 is good

* Multiple greens required to unlock - yes, or there's a higher risk of accidental early release

* Hide card information - yes, makes it more interesting

* Copies with fake combinations - yes, I really like this feature so run 1 real and 4 fakes. Great to watch a lock just about to be revealed but still not know if it's the real combination

* Auto reset - no

* Emergency release - that's up to you

So the choice of number of reds is complex so bear with me... 

Let's say you choose a "chance regularity" of 3 hours, non-cumulative. This means you need to check every 3 hours, and if you forget for a few days you don't get to do all the checks you missed, they're just lost. But realistically you're not going to check over night, so you get probably 6 checks in a day (9am, 12pm, 3pm, 6pm, 9pm, 12am). In other words, you will actually use 6 out of 8 of the check opportunities (3/4 of them).

But the app doesn't account for that, it thinks you'll do 8 checks a day. So when it gives an estimate of 10 days, it means 10*8=80 checks. Since you can only do 6 checks a day, it will take you just over 13 days to do that (80/6=13.33). So when the app estimates a number of days, multiply by 1.33 (4/3) to get the real number of days.

And there's two other factors that play in to this...

* The app has logic that says the 'random' pick of cards will never show a green if the minimum time (ie the time implied by the minimum number of reds in the range you specify) has not yet been met. For instance, if you specify the range of red cards you want as being between 80 and 160 red cards (check every 3 hours). It interprets that as the minimum time being 10 days, so will not show you a green card for the first 10 days. Note that we know 80 reds means minimum 13 days (see above) but the app doesn't consider that. This doesn't affect the release time, it's just very odd to not get any greens during the early lock time.

* For some reason, if the maxim and minimum number of red cards are the same (ie between 80 and 80) it interprets it that you meant between 1 and 80 (they tell me this is not a bug). Just avoid setting the maximum and minimum to the same values to avoid the confusion.

Both of those extra points are implied within the Chastikey help pages though I think not made as clear as they should be.

Do run the simulator several times to ensure the estimated time is within what you expect, but don't forget to multiply the estimate by 1.33 to get the true time!

Other points of interest:

* I first chose to use a bot and to 'hide updates'. The 'hide updates' means you get told that the bot has made a change but you don't know what the state was before or after so the bot update doesn't make much difference (I think I would prefer to know the bot has added reds even if I don't know how many there were before or after). And I found that when there were plenty of cards left, the bot offered to unlock the lock for me. I didn't want that, so kept denying its offer but it offered it every 3 hours. For both these reasons, I prefer not to use a bot.

* I use a digital safe with an 8 digit number, but one time I found myself remembering the combination - it was a month ago but I can still tell you it was 58583691. I realised I could remember it in part because I was reading the digits in pairs. Next time I did lockup I deliberately didn't read the combination on screen in pairs when typing into safe, but took it a digit at a time. I then had no recollection of any of it

* I think if you were to use a mechanical 4 digit "realtor box" type key safe, you would be less likely to remember the combination if you were to take the digits out of order - set the 3rd one then 1st then 4th then 2nd, for instance - I've not tried it though

I hope that's of some interest to someone. As I say, not the only way to use chastikey but it meets my original objectives.

Feel free to feed back to me on any point around this.

Spiked cock cage - Make your own!

Someone online pointed out a 3d printed chastity device, and I found it surprisingly cheap and easy to make, so here's the process.

You only need your own "magic locker" lock, which is supplied with any chastity cage that doesn't need a padlock, or available on ebay, eg https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/352834167288 or lots of other sellers.

There's a lot but only because each step is very easy:

1. Go to https://www.thingiverse.com/thing:4106860 this is the cage with spikes, you can browse the pictures
2. The description explains the difference between the different models
3. Click on "10 Thing Files", which will show you the files that made up the devices
4. Download the files you want. You need one base, one cover and one ring. I downloaded:
1. Iron_Maiden_Type_A_base.stl
2. Iron_Maiden_Type_A_cover.stl
3. Iron_Maiden_46mm_ergo_ring.stl
5. Go to https://www.treatstock.com/ this is an international company who coordinates local 3d printing companies
6. Top middle there's a button "Order 3D Print", click on that
7. Click on "Upload files"
8. Select all 3 files you downloaded earlier and 'OK'
9. You'll see it list them and some will have a small picture to the left but some will state "Processing model"
10. Wait until all 3 have a picture and none say "Processing model", this takes a few minutes
11. Click "Next"
12. It will list the parts top left and the printing companies and prices on the right
13. All prices are us US$ regardless of where in the world you are
14. Top middle there's a location picker, click on it and ensure it's (approximately) your current location
15. Choose your material and colour and other details, you can select a picture and choose the details for that print:
1. The main material choices are PLA which is good but can be brittle if thin, and ABS which is a bit stronger. I'm not sure about other materials
2. I chose PLA for the body and cover and ABS for the ring, because I first got a ring in PLA and the post snapped
3. Choose a colour for each part, you might find some colours limit your choice of printing companies (everyone does white and black)
4. Infill is how much material is used to fill in the walls. Higher means stronger but more expensive. I chose 100 for the ring and 80 for the others
16. On the right it lists the printing companies based on what you asked for - you need to add up the print cost and the shipping cost, so some may be cheap print expensive shipping or vice versa
17. I found that this order was less than the minimum order for the printing company (which for my local company was $11.99 print $4 ship) so I could choose a more expensive material or infill or add an extra thing to print and not make it any more expensive
18. Click 'Buy' on the one you want
19. Now you'll need to fill in your shipping details, possibly create an account, add to card and check out, just like any other online purchasing site
20. They will send you mails about progress of the print. They may send you pictures of the printed articles and ask for your approval before shipping it
21. Once company I once dealt with (a job which had several different products in different material) asked for more money after the money quoted by TreatStock, so I cancelled that order and placed it with someone else since there's thousands to choose from
22. It took about a week, most of that time was shipping

This looks like a lot of steps but takes about 10 minutes, and you get a very cheap quite quick device customised to your colour!

The finish on prints is not perfect, it may be a little rough in places, that's the main drawback of 3D print as opposed to getting something made in steel.

The main issue you might have with this design is that the post on the ring is a very tight fit into the hole on the cage (this is why my first one snapped) but it does work out okay if you're careful (to separate the parts, push the post out rather than pulling it).

Browse other things on thingiverse, you can print anything the same way, and things of a similar size are going to be a similar price.

I also printed https://www.thingiverse.com/thing:3722862 which is a "kali's teeth" ring which fits onto the base ring part of a CB6000 and replaces the cage part (this is the 'teeth_v2.stl' file):

Let me know how you get on!

Post-Christmas fun

I spent 3 days with family over Christmas, and didn't cum during that time.

On the train on the way home I wore Lycra leggings (of course):

On the journey I was chatting to people online who suggested (after some negotiation) that I spent the first 24 hours locked and for the next 5 days (which was the rest of the year!) I should edge for at least 20 minutes followed by only having a ruined orgasm.

What's more, I knew that during one day of the time between Christmas and New Year I would be the only person in my room at the office, and another day it would be very quiet.

So on the first day I wore a rubber suit (along with my cb) under work suit, and in a brave moment stripped down to just rubber and cb in the office!

And on the second day I wore a lycra suit under work suit, but that stayed covered up.

I had a total of 7 ruins over those 5 days.

I wore shiny leggings to a new years eve party:

And on new years day had my first proper cum in over a week! Due to all the ruins, it wasn't an 'explosive' orgasm in the way it would be if I'd not cum at all, but well appreciated anyway :-)

Rubber at Pride

I was going to a local Gay Pride event, so decided to make it interesting...

I decided not to have a full orgasm for 5 days before the event - from a munch on the Monday to Pride on the Saturday - but instead to ruin any orgasm I had (letting go at the critical moment). It was quite frustrating and annoying, but I persevered with it, in total having 9 ruined orgasms in a row. It felt quite a submissive act, even though I was doing it under my own orders.

Then on the day I dressed fairly normally for the journey to the park:

But once I got to the park I took off the covering shorts and tee to reveal my spotty rubber suit.

I was also wearing a steel buttplug and a 'tube jacket' chastity device under the suit.

I wore wrap-around sunglasses and a spiky backpack.

For a while the sun was out and it was very hot and I dripped a lot of sweat and lube. Fortunately that didn't last and the rest of the day was quite comfortable. The plug stayed in a few hours.

I think I had around 8 cans of lager through the day, and don't remember much about getting home (except that I think I walked through the town just in rubber!) but was fine the next day.

Running in the rain

I've developed quite a hobby for running in the rain - wearing as little as possible and getting drenched. Very invigorating and 'close to nature' :)

I just went out at 9pm - late because it's dark and there's less people about. It was light rain when I set out but got heavier later.

For most of the time I was wearing:

• Short Lycra shorts with padding - actually cycling underwear, but no length to the leg
• Steel chastity device underneath - been wearing for most of the week
• Vibrams 'toe' shoes
• GPS, MP3 and door key
• When I left home and got back, a teeshirt, but most of the time it was pushed into the back of my shorts

Some of the run was alongside a road. There was a queue of traffic and I had two shouts from cars (I couldn't tell what they said but I think positive) and quite a bit of beeping horns but I'm not sure if that was for me or trying to get cars to move along the traffic queue.

I ran about 3.5Km, most of which was topless. Quite cold out but after a bit of running I didn't feel like I was suffering with the cold - confusing but pleasant experience.

This is what I was wearing for most of the run - looking very wet there!

A few days of chastity

I was chatting to a friend online last Sunday while I happened to be locked in a cb (after already having cum lots through the day) and he suggested a week of chastity. We negotiated to spending days in chastity but overnight free - while not cumming but edging morning and evening.

And since I had the day off work on the Wednesday, I could unlock the cb but only after going jogging wearing a skimpy blue Lycra suit, with cb and butt plug underneath.

The Monday and Tuesday were much the same - I tended to ignore the cb while locked, and only really when I was unlocked and edging did I get horny. This reminds me I think I'm more into the denial aspect of chastity than the lockup itself.

Then Wednesday I prepared for the jog. You can see a video of me explaining the situation at:

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/Mortice-plugged-in-chastity-and-Lycra-ready-for-jog-31451992

Since the suit was so thin, I had to wear something underneath to control the cb bulge, so I put a dance belt underneath which seemed to do the job okay.

This is the plug that was hidden inside:

I felt very self-conscious leaving home wearing that suit, not least because I would be jogging along some quite populated streets with nowhere to hide. However, part way along I found that things had shifted and the cb wasn't as well hidden as it was, and no rearrangement would hide it. I could do nothing but run home. At once point I ran past two girls who seemed to be laughing at something as soon as I ran past - no idea if it was my general wear or my cb bulge or something else. I ran 5.5km which is quite a long way for me. This is how it looked by the time I got home:

I don't mind looking unusual on the streets as in "more sporty than most people" but a cock bulge like that makes it look more pervy than sporty, not the look I'm after. I've had the situation before that things look a lot better when leaving home that getting back. I think I'm going to have to be a lot more cautious wearing stuff like chastity under tight gear.

The plug wasn't that comfortable (happens sometimes, quite random) and I had to take it out when I got home. I though I would make my first cum 'interesting' so before unlocking I put on this gag and restriction hood.

I unlocked (while blinded) and worked myself up to an orgasm, which was good but not earth-shattering (often the way) and generated lots of cum:

Later on I went shopping (Lycra shorts and cotton teeshirt) and thought I'd make it interesting by going into the cubicle at a public toilet, stripping naked and cumming again. That was hot - quite a 'danger' feel to it.

Weekend at a rubber club

I went to Rubber Cult, a rubber-based fetish club in London, on the weekend.

It was a good opportunity for dressing up in Lycra gear on the train there and back.

So on the way there I wore this:

To the club I wore this:

And on the way home the next day I wore this:

However, by the time I got home I realised the thong leotard had slipped up at the sides:

I think that gives the outfit a very different look - not intended but quite 'interesting'.

Free of restriction

It's been nearly a week since my restriction fortnight. It was good to cum again on the Sunday afternoon after unlocking.

I haven't noticed the quality of orgasms after the lockup being much different to before. It was Thursday before I had a particularly good one.

It was nice to do something different for a while, although glad it's not a 24/7 thing - great to be back to 'free access' now :-)

Last day of restriction

I get to unlock later on, though still locked now.

When setting my time controlled safe I didn't take into account that daylight saving starts today, so it's opening an hour later (local time) than I'd expected.

The most annoying thing about this lockup has been sleeping (as it often is), I've not had a normal night's sleep since I locked up.

And of course getting horny and unable to play - happened several times during the lockup. I can feel the difference in not having cum a while - not cum at all for a week and the last one was ruined, not cum without some sort of restriction for two weeks.

Yesterday I was out with some friends, I was wearing tight Lycra leggings with some padding to try to hide the cb bulge. I got no comments about it (positive or negative) so hope I got away with it :-)

Looking forward to freedom!

This has been a good exercise to do. I do this sort of thing once in a while to remember what it's all about, but quite pleased that I don't have to do any of it 24/7 - it makes me appreciate it all the more when I'm not restricted.

A week into restriction

I'm now into the second week of my restriction time - see A few weeks of restriction

It was quite 'sporting' having to play and cum only when wearing various equipment, but now into the more challenging phase of edge only before locking up. I decided to lock up a day earlier (4 days total, one less of 'no touch') which might have an impact on sleep but should be a 'fun' restriction otherwise.

A few weeks of restriction

I'm putting myself on various restrictions for a few weeks, the nature of restriction
getting a little harder every few days, ending with 3 days locked in a chastity device.

These dates are in March 2017:

3pm Sat 11th to 3pm Mon 13th - Touch/cum only when wearing heavy cock ring
3pm Mon 13th to 3pm Wed 15th - Touch/cum only when wearing heavy ball stretcher
3pm Wed 15th to 3pm Fri 17th - Touch/cum only when butt plugged
3pm Fri 17th to 3pm Sun 19th - Ruin only (play but let go before cumming and no touching for 1 minute after)
3pm Sun 19th to 3pm Tue 21st - Edge only (play but no cum)
3pm Tue 21st to 3pm Thu 23rd - No touching
3pm Thu 23rd to 3pm Sun 26th - Locked in cb, keys in time controlled safe

'Touching' only refers to sexual touching - cleaning etc is okay any time.

Also, I'll play for at least an hour a day (on days where touching is allowed) and will attempt
prostate massage at least once a day in the 2nd week (never achieved that before).

Should be fun. It's not too long a time because I'm self-controlling and I find self-control gets
dull and pointless after a long time, and this scheme keeps changing the nature of restriction
to keep it interesting.

Crop top and bib leggings

I'm always looking for quirky interesting things to wear. For instance, I've been wearing Lycra leggings quite a bit out in public recently.

I had an idea for something suitably odd. I have various 'bib leggings' which are leggings with straps over shoulder but they tend to have a low dip in the front (so if I weren't wearing anything else you'd see a lot of chest) so I usually wear one with a tee shirt.

However, I've thought about wearing bib leggings with a crop top (short tee shirt) so that it would have full coverage (no flesh poking out) but the normal 'waist line' band between upper and lower clothing would be higher.

Like this:

It achieves the aim of looking quite odd - at first, fairly normal 'fitness wear' until you think about what the components of it actually are - the style of the top is sufficiently different to the bottom to show they're not a single 'catsuit'.

I've ordered a few crop top type things from ebay, so shall try the same sort of look where the top half is more of a loose cut-short tee shirt, rather than a tight top like this one.

Jogging in skeleton zentai

I went out jogging today wearing my skeleton zentai:

Got some stares and kids seem to find it fun. A woman said something which seemed to be in good humour but I couldn't hear what it was.

I wore the suit to a vanilla Halloween pub event on Saturday, people seemed to enjoy that - quite a bit of fancy dress there.

My running has gone unusually well this October - total distance this month of 60km exceeded my previous best of 45km (last month), I exceeded 6km in one run for the first time, the number of runs per month was the highest this year, and my average run length of 3.4km exceeded the previous best of 2.9km (last month). This has now set ambitious targets which will be tough to beat next month!

Lycra gear to work

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Ball stretching

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No longer controlled

After discussion with my Mistress, we decided that we should stop being 'Mistress and sub', since her home life was too busy to also look after a sub - she had been busy for a few months and I thought it would eventually get better, but she thought likely it would not.

It's strangely liberating not being controlled, and on the one hand I miss it but on the other it gives me a chance to find a local dom/domme instead.

Blue leggings

I was travelling to meet friends and Mistress decided I should wear some leggings (too cold for shorts). I deliberated but selected these blue ones, with a long blue top and bit boots:

It did feel strange when I was out for a meal with the friends who were all normally dressed, then me looking like that. There were no comments made but I think it may have been a little too far from mainstream for the crowd.

On my way home I took off the long loose top to show the tight top underneath:

Even thought that was much 'stranger' than what I was wearing earlier, I felt much more comfortable with it because I had left my friends by then and was on a train with strangers.

Jogging in a thunderstorm

Last Thursday I was heading out for a jog in the evening, wearing a purple triathlon suit with a padded thong under to hide the bulge.

It had started raining a little, but I quite like being out in the rain and thought it would stop soon, so would be a good time to go out.

But the rain didn't stop, as I ran it got heavier, then thunder and lightning started and it turned into quite a torrent of heavy rain. I was soaked to the skin, but as I was wearing very little that didn't take long. I was completely sodden but kept running, and ended up running further than I usually do.

I found out later that the storm delivered half a month's rainfall over a few hours and caused flooding and damage across the area.

Quite an intense experience.

Visit to family

A week after the Pride event, Mistress allowed me to unlock chastity to go visit family.

I can't wear anything too controversial there, but can 'dress up' for the long train journey to get there.

Mistress specified two tops I should wear, with any sort of black Lycra lower half, and 'bonus points' if I wear a purple Lycra singlet.

For the outward journey I wore one of the tops with cycle shorts:

For the return journey I wore Lycra leggings and considered wearing the purple Lycra singlet (tried it on in the toilets):

But thought the combination looked much too like an Olympic gymnast!

So I put the other top that Mistress specified over the singlet:

However, after sitting down I realised that the 'superhero' top along with leggings does look a lot like I'm trying to look like a superhero (the way 7 year old boys do!) - the leggings or the top individually would be okay but together they're too strange. So for the last 1/2 hour of the journey I switched to a black top, still with Lycra leggings - and I was quite aware of how skin-tight the leggings were!

Pride!

Mistress had be lock up in chastity for a local LGBT Pride event, and she originally specified I should be in short shorts but it turned out to be too cold for that so I wore some Lycra gear.

I think jogging gear and big boots is a nice contrast :)

The weather was cool but pleasant for a few hours, then turned to heavy rain. I added a Lycra hoodie, but was okay in leggings which got quite wet - people told me I looked like a diver!