Plugged

I spent the afternoon in work with a steel buttplug up me :)

I slipped it in a little after 1pm while home from work for lunch, and since it was still comfortable 1/2 hour later, I kept it in on return to work and then up to 7pm when it needed to come out - 6 hours is not bad :)

Last weekend I went out to a local cafe with a friend, and I wore some short jogging shorts and vest top for the trip. At one point she said, "They are short, aren't they!" :)

Padlocks in piercings

I just spent a week with padlocks in piercings!

In my PA was the 'piercing jewellery' lock which came with my steelheart, and in frneum a standard padlock engraved with "Access Denied".

Nice experience, the locks don't prevent any play but do get in the way and can't forget about them when using urinal :)

I put the keys into a combination lock box which was in the garden for the week.

Fun to do something a bit different, always keen to hear interesting other ideas for hidden kink things like that.

Festival fun

I just spent 3 days camping at a music festival.

I took the opportunity to wear 'odd stuff' so was all the time in vest or sleeveless top, and on 2 days wore short jog shorts with high cut sides and one day wore cycle shorts. Of the thousands there, I was the only guy wearing such short shorts, and all but a few of the guys wore knee-length  shorts or longer.

I also spent about half an hour wandering around in a purple camouflage zentai with just eye holes. Got a lot of stares and smiles then :)

The friends I was with were appropriately surprised by the zentai, and also surprised by the shortness of the shorts (I had described them beforehand as 'short').

All quite fun, and of course I got no comments and no 'trouble' about the short shorts, so no clear reason not to do it more often :)

Short Heros

I went to the monthly 'skintight' club Heros on Sunday, which was relatively busy for an August meet.

I travelled there in short shorts and sleeveless teeshirt, and was wearing a heavy neckchain padlocked with keys at home. The padlock wasn't visible under the tee but the chain was - probably looked rather heavy for a 'fashion' chain.

On the way home I decided to keep wearing the short shorts and same teeshirt - I did have a change of clothes with me but decided it was a warm enough evening to make the tube and train journey in skimpy gear even though it was 11pm.

I felt fairly self-conscious doing it, but was a nice experience.

Club and post-club

I went to a fetish club on Friday. I wore my carrara steel chastity belt along with a light mess teeshirt and plastic sandals. It was quite nice walking around with metalwork on display, I got a few comments about it.

Of course, I used the opportunity on the way there and back to not wear too much. On my return from hotel via train on Saturday morning I was in cycle shorts and a vest top. Even though I've been wearing odd stuff out for a while now, I still felt quite self-concious (not all in a bad way) wearing cycle shorts out. I got an odd look from another guy in cycle shorts, but he was holding a bike at the time.

I don't think I've ever seen a guy in cycle shorts walking around that's not either cycling or jogging. Am I really doing something that people just don't do?

I've been wearing short shorts more than cycle shorts, and I also never see anyone wear those, but I'm less self-concious about them. Hot weather has been my excuse, but I hope when it turns to more average weather I won't revert to 'normal clothes' too quick.

A friend suggested that on the way from hotel to home I should try not wearing sandals and do it barefoot. I did try, and left the hotel barefoot but found the pavement quickly got unmanageable with rough surfaces and the occasional small stone. But in the hotel people would have seen me barefoot in cycle shorts and wondered what sort of person would do that...

More ruining

Between Wednesday morning and the club on Friday evening I cum 6 times, but all of them were ruined orgasms - I let go of my cock before I shot my load. It significantly reduces the pleasurable feelings from cumming, which is on the one hand quite annoying but on the other feels like a good submissive thing to do.

One interesting side-effect is that I was effectively edging - trying to work out when I was going to cum so I knew when to let go, so sometimes I would get right to the edge of orgasm but I'd let go a second too soon so didn't shoot. Which is a whole other sort of play, continuous edging without cumming.

One time, I cum but ruined it by letting go, so my cock pulsed and some cum came out, but once it was finished it didn't really feel like it had finished. I carried on stroking and about 10 seconds later the same happened again (which I ruined the same way). After the second, it did feel different and my cock went down quickly. Not sure I've had a 'partial cum' like that before.

Ruined!

I've been playing with 'ruined' orgasms.

This is when you wank to the point of cumming, but just as you're about to shoot you let go of the cock and let it pulse and spurt. No contact means you don't feel any of the usual orgasmic sensations.

My last 3 orgasms have been done that way.

It's fairly annoying having the build up but not the same 'release' sensation as I'm used to.

There's quite a submissive interest in changing how my orgasm feels, so I sometimes give myself a 'good' one and sometimes a 'bad' one. In a similar way to sometimes being in chastity and sometimes edging but not cumming.

I could for instance spend time where I have to alternate between ruined and full orgasms.

I'll play around with them some more (I've decided my next cum will be ruined too).